Have you ever hidden a part of yourself or do you find it easy to be open with others? I’ve personally found it hard to share the real me online in the past, always fearing that the real me wouldn’t somehow be liked or that I would come across as too weird, silly or just that my online thoughts would seem boring to someone else. But something I’ve found over time (and a few years of this blogging life) is that by sharing a blog online we can begin to be ourselves, even if the ‘real’ us in the offline world is too shy or reserved to share parts of ourselves or feel like we can be so open with others.
There’s something so freeing about the online world, maybe it’s the fact that we don’t have to be physically seen or that we can be who we really want to be inside, without those who know us putting us down or making us feel small, or just the fact that we can explore ideas without everyone in our real lives knowing what we’re thinking, but something about it just feels freeing. And then there’s the communities of such friendly people that you are bound to find someone who shares in your interests no matter what those interests are. So I hope you enjoy this poem and remember to not be so afraid to share yourself. Some reservation is okay and we shouldn’t be so open that we make ourselves too vulnerable, but at the same time remember, don’t hide the real away too much you because you fear someone may not like you…because by being you, you might just find some new and great like-minded friends! 🙂
The Real Me?
©The Strawberry Post
Did I share a part of myself,
Or would I run and hide?
Bared all and told truth,
Or wrote pretends and lied?
Did I open up myself,
Or close you off from mind?
Let you see the truth inside,
Or leave all me to find?
Did you enter inside heart,
Or would I put defence?
Let you touch deep within,
Or make space between dense?
Did you ever see true me,
Or would I keep apart?
Let you be so close to soul,
Or close away my heart?
-Review first appeared online January 2018 – now republished here.
What do you think of this poem? Do you find it easy to be yourself online? Or do you prefer to keep parts of you hidden from others? Let me know what you think in the comments below 🙂
I have serious trouble being the real me… anywhere, not just on the internet. Not sure if my family really know who I am… sigh…
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Don’t worry, plenty of people feel like that. Though I’ve become more open to sharing who I am, there are still big parts of myself I keep hidden away. And as for family, not everyone has a family they want to fully share themselves with. It’s good to open up a little to find like-minded people but opening ourselves too much too soon can also lead to vulnerability. It’s a bit of a mix of both that keeps us properly balanced I think. Hope you are safe and well, take care ❤ ❤ 🙂
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Reasonably safe and well, Kitty. Hope you are too?
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Good to hear ❤ Everything well here and hopefully it will stay that way. Take care ❤ 🙂
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I share most things, but there are things I don’t share, whether online or offline.
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I think that’s probably the best balance, I don’t think it’s good for anyone to fully share so much that they leave themselves vulnerable, but at the same time it’s good to share enough of ourselves that we don’t feel like a split personality when we’re with people/online 🙂 ❤
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